Success can come to anyone. With patience and fortitude a person can succeed at almost anything. Let us think of some amazing accomplishments that humans have achieved. Monks can sleep on top of mountains in snow and stop spears from going through their skin. A man lifted a helicopter off a person and a mother lifted a car off a child because adrenaline allowed them to do something without thinking of what they cannot do.
Acting by instinct and allowing our bodies to do what our minds might possibly tell us we cannot. Our minds can do similar. We have to let them flow and sometimes we should not question. Allow our minds to take us where we want. This can happen anytime we choose. Sometimes letting go will allow us to do what must be done.
The first step to success is making a decision. Part of making a decision is to figure out why you want to do something. If you can find a big enough “why” you can achieve anything. Do you want to take care of your family? Do you want to go on vacation anytime you want to? Do you want to have a deeper relationship with your spouse? This list could go on and on. Make a decision on what you want out of life but more important get yourself a real reason as to why you want what that is.
The second step is allowing your mind to plan on how you will do this. Making a plan is a key to success. I prefer to hand write my serious plans because I get the feeling that is what my brain wants. Another part of this step is allowing time to let your brain pick your memory from what you have learned in the past. If there is something you are not sure about in your plan the brain will let you know. When this happens you have a simple solution, learn what you do not know. I suggest learning from other people that have gone before you. The great news about this is that there are so many resources out there for us to use it should not be a problem to learn almost anything you want. Find a book, use the internet or best of all sit down with a person.
Third step I would say is to take action on your plan. Even if you do not know everything you cannot wait for the perfect time to start. If I had done that I would not have had the most wonderful baby daughter in the world. If I had done that I would not have gathered a beautiful wife and her children which have become my children as well. We all have so much love for one another. I take action every day to try to make my family happy in one form or another. This allows me to accomplish the goal of having a great family relationship.
One last step intermixes with all of the other steps and will allow you to accomplish your success. That is laser targeted focus. A laser beam takes up a small area and is very direct. This is how we have to think of our goals. Concentrate until action has bloomed and there is no way that what you want to accomplish will fail. We as humans normally have short attention spans. I know some days I am definitely guilty of this. If you have a strong enough will to want something in your life make it so. Tell yourself you need to concentrate. Do not allow many distractions in your pursuit. Make each and every day count.